Dare To Date Me

If you keep finding yourself attracted to people who are emotionally unavailable, inconsistent, or simply not ready for the kind of relationship you want—this episode may change the way you date.
Welcome back to The Dare To Date Me Podcast, where hosts Marla and Max bring honest conversations, real-world dating insight, and just the right amount of boldness to help you date with more confidence, clarity, and intention.
Today, we’re diving into part two of our conversation with Angus Scott and Mayan Tran, the founders of Your Epic Love. In this episode, we go deeper into the idea of Dating by Design—but what does that actually mean? Is it about creating a checklist? Being more selective? Trusting your gut? Or is it about becoming aware of the patterns running beneath the surface that may be choosing your partners before you consciously do?
Angus and Mayan help us unpack the unconscious dating patterns that can keep us circling the same painful relationships: pursuing people who are unavailable, mistaking chemistry for compatibility, overlooking red flags because the connection feels familiar, or accepting less than we truly want because we are afraid of ending up alone.
This is not about blaming yourself for your dating history. It is about recognizing the stories, beliefs, and emotional habits that may be influencing your choices—and learning how to make different ones. We also get practical.
You’ll hear a few powerful early-date questions that can help you move beyond surface-level banter and identify real alignment: alignment in values, communication, emotional availability, relationship goals, and what someone is genuinely prepared to build.
So, if you are ready to stop dating on autopilot, break free from the unavailable-partner cycle, and start choosing love with intention, this episode is for you. Let’s get into it—welcome to The Dare To Date Me Podcast.

Welcome back to The Dare To Date Me Podcast—the place where we get honest about dating, relationships, healing, and what it really takes to create the kind of love you deserve.
We’re your hosts, Marla and Max, and today we’re kicking off the first of a very special two-part conversation that goes far beyond swiping, first dates, and relationship red flags. This episode is about something so many of us carry into dating—sometimes without even realizing it: the pain, disappointment, heartbreak, and self-doubt left behind by past relationships. Whether you’ve been betrayed, blindsided by a breakup, stuck in an unhealthy pattern, or simply found yourself wondering, “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of relationship?”—this conversation is for you. Because moving forward isn’t about pretending the past never happened. It’s about understanding how it shaped you, releasing what no longer serves you, and learning how to open your heart again without abandoning yourself in the process.
Joining us today are Angus Scott and Mayan Tran, the founders of Your Epic Love. Through their work, Angus and Mayan help people move beyond old relationship wounds and reconnect with the possibility of healthy, meaningful, and deeply fulfilling love. They bring a powerful perspective to the conversation—one that reminds us that healing isn’t just about getting over someone; it’s about coming home to yourself.
In Part One, we’re exploring how unresolved pain from previous relationships can show up in the way we date, the partners we choose, the boundaries we set—or don’t set—and the stories we tell ourselves about love. We’ll talk about how to recognize those patterns, how to begin letting go of the emotional baggage that may be holding you back, and how to take meaningful steps toward a future that feels different from your past.
So, if you’re ready to stop letting old heartbreak write the script for your next relationship, settle in. This is a conversation about healing, hope, self-awareness, and daring to believe that your epic love story may still be ahead of you. Let’s get into it.

Welcome back to The Dare To Date Me Podcast, where dating gets real, relationships get honest, and nobody is afraid to ask the questions everyone else is thinking.
We’re your hosts, Marla and Max, and today we’re bringing you a conversation you do not want to miss. Joining us is Angus Scott, founder of Your Epic Love, to give us a man’s perspective on modern dating—and to dig into what it actually takes to find your person.
Why do we keep choosing the same kinds of partners? Are we truly ready for love, or are we unintentionally getting in our own way? Are you attracting the crazy… or, let’s be honest, are you making them crazy? And when things start getting real, do you lean in—or do you self-sabotage before someone has the chance to hurt you?
Angus is here to unpack the patterns, the fears, the mixed signals, and the mindset shifts that can help you stop dating in circles and start creating the kind of connection you actually want.
So grab your coffee, your wine, or your group chat—and get ready to dare to date differently. Let’s welcome Angus Scott to The Dare To Date Me Podcast.

This week on The Dare To Date Me Podcast, Marla and Max are diving headfirst into the world of open relationships, poly situationships, and the fine line between honesty and having a hall pass with better PR.
We’re asking the real questions: Are people actually communicating… or just avoiding commitment with fancy labels? Is jealousy dead—or just lurking with a group chat screenshot? And most importantly… can you really handle the truth when “the truth” includes other people in your bed?
It’s messy, it’s honest, it’s a little unhinged—and yeah, we said what everyone’s thinking but is too scared to text. Grab your snacks, your situationship, or your three partners (no judgment… kinda), and come argue with us in the comments.
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Welcome back to The Dare To Date Me Podcast—the only place where your dating horror stories make us feel better about our own questionable life choices.
…and today we are asking the important questions, like: when did “hey, how are you?” turn into unsolicited anatomy photography? Because apparently, some of y’all skipped every step in human interaction and went straight to National Geographic: Unwanted Edition.
We’re diving into the wild world of unwanted messages—you know, the “good morning beautiful” at 2:47am, the copy-paste compliments, and of course… the surprise attachments nobody asked for, nobody wanted, and absolutely nobody is impressed by. Sir, this is not Dropbox. Stop sharing files. BUT we’re also getting into something a little more… strategic.
Because while some people are out here sending nonsense, others are out here dating with a purpose. And by purpose, we mean… should you be dating for love, or for a vacation home? Listen. If he has beachfront property and emotional unavailability… are we really losing? So buckle up, because today we’re talking boundaries, bad decisions, bold strategies, and whether your soulmate might just come with a timeshare.

Welcome back to The Dare To Date Me Podcast — where dating gets real, ridiculous, and sometimes refreshingly reckless. I’m Marla, and I’m joined by the ever-charming, occasionally chaotic Max!
Today’s episode is all about “This or That” — a rapid-fire round that’ll make you question what you really want in dating and what you’re just pretending you can live with. Are you more of a dinner-date dreamer or a Netflix-and-never-leaver? Do you want the “good morning” texts or the spontaneous road trips? We’re about to find out how low your standards go when faced with choice vs. chemistry.
And let’s be real — it takes about 90 days for that dopamine love fog to lift and for you to actually see the person behind the charm (and the filtered selfies). Three months later, the dating fantasy fades, and reality taps you on the shoulder like, “Hey babe, THIS is who they really are.”
Grab your favorite drink and get comfy — because Marla and Max are ready to make you laugh, cringe, and maybe, just maybe, re-evaluate your dating life. Let the “This or That” showdown begin!
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Welcome back to The Dare To Date Me Podcast—where we unpack modern dating one questionable decision at a time. Today’s topic? DTF: Down to feelings… or was it fun? Don’t worry, we’re going there.
So you said yes to a no-strings situation—great! But what happens when the strings start showing? We’re talking hall passes, unexpected attachments, and the exact moment your heart decides to crash the casual party. Are you supposed to check out emotionally, or lean into the chaos like it’s a season finale of your own romantic drama?
Buckle up, babes. This episode is all about what happens when “just for fun” turns into “oh no, I like you.”

🎙️ Podcast Intro: "New Names for Old Terms" — The Dare To Date Me Podcast
“Welcome back to The Dare To Date Me Podcast — where common sense takes a backseat and modern dating rides shotgun! Today, we’re diving into something every single person secretly needs… a dating glossary! Because apparently, in 2026, you can’t just ‘like someone’ anymore. You’ve gotta ‘vibe,’ ‘soft launch,’ and ‘situationship’ your way through the wilderness of words before you even make it to an actual date.
Remember when ‘ghosting’ used to mean Halloween? Yeah, me neither. Now we've got beige flags, roaching, fizzling, and my personal favorite — delulu. That’s right, "delulu is the solulu," and apparently, optimism is now a diagnosis.
In this episode, we’re breaking down all the new names for the same old dating drama — the rebrands, the red flags, and why Gen Z basically needs a translator to flirt. Whether you’ve been breadcrumbed, bench’d, or situationship’d into submission, we’ve got the definitions, the drama, and of course, a few laughs to keep you from deleting your apps—again.
So grab your emotional support beverage, open that Notes app where you keep everyone’s nicknames, and let’s decode the chaos together. Because love might be timeless, but dating lingo sure isn’t.”

Buckle up, singles—this week on The Dare To Date Me Podcast, hosts Marla and Max are ditching the DMs and diving into real-life connections! 🎙️
We’re hanging out with the admin team behind AZ Dating and Events 29-59 (yeah, not that other group 😏)—the fastest-growing Facebook page that’s turning online flirts into offline fun. If you’ve ever caught yourself being a keyboard warrior instead of actually meeting people out in the wild, this episode is your call to action. 💥
We’re talking about why it’s time to stop hiding behind posts and start hosting them—get out there, set up an event, throw out some open invites, and find your person who matches your kind of weird. Whether it’s hiking, bar crawls, game nights, or karaoke disasters, this community is all about connecting through shared experiences instead of swiping fatigue.
So grab your headphones (and maybe your courage) because The Dare To Date Me Podcast is here to remind you—love isn’t found in your comment section, it’s waiting for you IRL. 💃🕺

Az Dating and Events – Admin Edition 🎙️ Welcome to Az Dating and Events — and no, not that other group, honey!
This episode is filled with the original crew, the wild card, the cocktail of fun, flirty, and a little over-the-top fabulous.
This is where Arizona singles come to mix, mingle, and maybe meet someone who can actually keep up. Meet Paula, Baby Jesus, Heather, Joshua, Chrystal your fearless admins, and today we’re spilling the tea on why this group exists, who keeps the party energy alive, and how you can jump right into the mix. Spoiler alert: it’s more than swipes and small talk — it’s an experience. Whether you’re here for new friends, new flings, or just new adventures, Az Dating and Events serves up weekend plans worth remembering and connections that last longer than your Sunday hangover. Joining us is easy — find us on Facebook at Az Dating and Events 29-59 (Not That Other Group), hit that “Join” button, and bring your good vibes.
Once you’re in, expect trivia nights, singles mixers, hiking meetups, and maybe a dash of chaos in the best way possible. So what can you bring to the group? Energy. Openness. Maybe your best wing-person. Because the more you put in, the more this community gives back — laughter, friendships, unforgettable stories, and maybe the start of your next “How we met” tale. This is Az Dating and Events — where Arizona’s singles come to connect, laugh, and live a little louder. Buckle up — we’re just getting started.